a lot has happened in our family over the last few days/week. Our beloved Cody Bear passed. He was nearly 14 years old. Our girls are sad as we are too. They did find a shiny penny over the weekend and are sure it’s from our Cody up there running around over the rainbow bridge with our Molly.
My oldest daughter’s 3rd grade teacher shared that she too is an adoptee. This turned into a wonderful discussion learning about her life, her reunion with birth family and how an adult adoptee feels. I love that she shared this knowing our two girls were adopted as well. My daughter was there in the room during this conversation at the end of the school day. It was one that I followed up with her in our car as she, her sister and I headed home. How did they feel knowing a beloved teacher was like them, adopted at birth? Hearing her life and love for the family that raised her and the relationships she now has later in her life with her birth family. Without over prodding my girls, I wanted to see what they understood, heard and thought about learning this information about an adult they know. I think we will need a few more days or weeks to process.
Adoption seems to be the “it” subject of our week. Yesterday we learned a classmate of my older daughter’s was adopted as well. She from China. I again followed up the conversation with my daughters in the car on the way home from school. Wasn’t it interesting to learn a classmate came to her family in a similar way? This girl’s mom recently became a friend of mine on facebook and had read my posted links of this blog learning about our family’s story. I don’t want to overdue the conversation with my girls, but how great is it to learn more about the people in our lives through school that have similar family stories!
Adoption is a part of our lives and it is our family story. It’s something that comes up in conversation within our family often, sometimes just our two girls talking with each other about their families and our family. Sometimes it’s their planning out their future lives. They’ve shared with me they too want to adopt a baby into their lives when they are older. I think is wonderful and shows me how normal our family lives are that they want to have a family in a similar way.
Time and again I realize you never know when or who you will meet that will have a similar story and share it with you. I appreciate the honesty of people sharing their stories with us. It give us more to talk about and appreciate the life we have and for our girls to have others in their lives with families just like ours.